Word of the Day

Singlehood doesn’t have to mean loneliness. It’s all what you make it.

Never be lonely enough to settle.

Change up your habits, by incorporating activities you may have always thought to do, but never attempted.

Push yourself to be more optimistic about the choices and decisions you state for yourself.

Alone time is prep time.

Its get your ish together time.

Its get to know who you are and what do you want time.

Its enjoying the many splendor of freedom time.

Its understanding where you fall short and desire support time.

Get all you can, but above else, get yourself some understanding.

Take the time to be alone.

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Motivation for Perspective: Go Getter Monday

Correction isn’t a discredit to what you have accomplished, rather it is marker to show where you can improve upon what you have built.

Stay out of your feelings enough to catch the gems of those who have gone before you.

They are putting you up on free game; pay attention and apply what you can.

Motivation for Perspective: Go Getter Monday

You can’t get away from the fundamentals.

Building a support system has to be mutually beneficial; therefore you have to give as much as you stand to receive.

There is no act too small. You can find the best one to fit any occasion.

Maya was and still is right, “people may forget what you do for them, but they don’t forget how you make them feel.”

“Aint no way around it”

-Future

Put your hands forth in front of you, what will you give today?

I look forward to hearing your stories! Leave a comment below with what you will commit to giving today in your relationships with others.

For me: Appreciation of time.

Checking in + Storytime

Hi Readers,

I know it’s been a while since I opened my bright idea mouth and shared the news to expand the flow of HEY GIRL HEY!!! And while I’m still toiling over ideas, I honestly haven’t written down a committed P.O.V. on it…

Truth. Reading it sounds harsh, but it’s still my truth. Up to me to change it. In the meantime I am continuing to be social both off and online….Which leads me to my story.

Someone on my IG yesterday posted a video that still has me like,”what in thee *insert what you like* did I just witness?!?!

I believe myself to be pretty open minded, just because I don’t subscribe to something someone else does, does not mean I don’t love them; however I can be quite prudish😇.

And what I witnessed yesterday is one of those things where I’m like, where do we draw the moral line on social media?

I asked a question via my personal social media some months ago; Morals: The fear of judgement and asked if it were true or false. People gave their answer but no explanation…guess I should have prompted them. *noted*

Then what is the purpose of morals if on one hand what’s appropriate to share to others isn’t the same for the next person who receives it?

When do we begin to reasonably modify our entertainment for the, dare I say, innocence of others?

Because believe it or not, there actually a couple of a lotta things I can do without seeing ever in life.

However, isn’t that the slippery slope of being social? You’re bound to bump into a “was not expecting that at all” moment. May it not be as traumatic as the one I am currently attempting to rid my thoughts of. 😯😕

Post responsibly. Know your audience.