What is for you is not for anyone else to understand or even to accept.
Especially when they are not privy to your journey.
We have to stop internalizing the judgment of others as if they matter more than the vision we’ve been given.
You know what you’ve prayed for, toiled for, wrestled with and cried about.
So then why allow the opinion of an outsider to hold weight in your circumstance?
God is the only one who truly knows your situation and it is God a lone who you should turn to when you need assurance in your journey.
Because unfortunately, we as humans can only see what we can see, whereas God sees all, knows all and hears all.
Place your trust there, its a sure thing. Keep your head up, your prayers consistent and your energy connected to what flows, stop resisting where its taking you, because we never know what’s awaiting us just ahead.
When the vision isn’t matching up, ask God for clarity, continuously.
Remember the journey never looks like the destination.
We have to be wiling to accept support, encouragement and guidance at all times, not just when we’re in the mood to receive it.
Sometimes others can see us not doing as much as we should to achieve the goals we have spoken about, and serve as a reminder to get back to what matters.
So take a moment when you’re caught off guard by some tough honesty. Let it play out in your mind. Touch through the senses and emotions. And find a way to be physically active as you do this, fully exert the energy.
I truly believe afterwards, you will find a true center of knowing anyone motivating to pursue your dreams, isn’t attempting to badger you, but simply believes just as much, if not more than you do.
Take the energy and run with it.
Focus on what matters.
Singlehood doesn’t have to mean loneliness. It’s all what you make it.
Never be lonely enough to settle.
Change up your habits, by incorporating activities you may have always thought to do, but never attempted.
Push yourself to be more optimistic about the choices and decisions you state for yourself.
Alone time is prep time.
Its get your ish together time.
Its get to know who you are and what do you want time.
Its enjoying the many splendor of freedom time.
Its understanding where you fall short and desire support time.
Get all you can, but above else, get yourself some understanding.
Take the time to be alone.
Love yourself first.
Learn from your mistakes of giving your love away more than you use it.
It isn’t selfish to apply self care.
Your focus determines the type of energy you put out.
Choose wisely what and who you engage with and self check on a regular basis.
Know what’s up with you more than what is occurring around you.
You are your first responsibility.
It’s ok to desire someone to check on you; however don’t wait for someone else to do for you what you are able to do for self.
Be a holistic being, rather than walking around looking to be completed outside of yourself.
Take care of you mind, body and spirit.
Put your health and well being as your first priority.