selflove

Word of the Day 

It’s ok to desire someone to check on you; however don’t wait for someone else to do for you what you are able to do for self.

Be a holistic being, rather than walking around looking to be completed outside of yourself.

Take care of you mind, body and spirit.

Put your health and well being as your first priority.

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Motivation for Perspective: Go Getter Monday

There are times, when you need someone…

Be that someone

Be there for yourself like you desire someone else to be;

When you’re messing up, correct yourself. And do better. Much better.

When you’re empty, fill yourself with positive words and love. Give yourself a hug, squeeze tight like you mean it.

When you’re feeling lonely, remind yourself that you a lone are enough. No one else like you in the whole wide world.

That light you’re waiting to shine through your darkness, 

Lies within you.

Strike the match.

Motivation for Perspective: Go Getter Monday

Be exactly who you want to be.
Choosing to be free is the greatest gift you can give to yourself.
Loving yourself as you were created takes more courage than any battlefield.
Your mental and emotional health are of your control.
Make your life what you want it to be.
The world is yours.

Make A Plan
Take Action
Set Up Shop
Go Get It

Self Motivation 101: Love Notes

I never realized how badly I wanted my dreams to come true, until I was given the opportunity to make them happen.

Now I cannot stop dreaming, planning and acting upon my dreams.

Because I know what I am capable of, I am unstoppable in my quest to create the life I want.

It all starts within me.

Early Morning Thoughts: Figuring Out the Premise

I came across a quote yesterday while on Instagram and it resonated with what I am currently sorting through my mind, in terms of our relationships with people in our lives. Especially those which are fairly new and we may be trying to figure out what is their purpose and more importantly, if they are even needed in our lives.

Now I understand the saying of seasons and reasons, but sometimes…… is it even that deep?

Like do I need to contemplate every person or can I just be exclusive and hope for the best possible results from my choosing? Because there are some people who just pop into our lives; those are the random people who I feel need to be given a trial and error test, but more than likely they saw a glimpse of you which they connected to, they have no earthly idea of who you are and if you are not careful, you wind up playing a specific role each and every time you are in their presence.

The façade is a slippery and easy slope to partake in. It is so tempting because it can seem so much easier than taking the time in getting to know someone for who they want to be to you. And if you decide to wear the façade, you may find that what they want from you requires more than you are willing to give.

So with that part being said, I don’t want the façade, but then again I don’t want the mundane experience of normalcy.

It would be perfect if what ever intentions were first brought to the table, were to remain as a constant; no variables or substitutes, but a genuine reason to connect.

I am having to really take the time to evaluate each relationship and be truthful with what I am willing to give to maintain it or to disseminate it. Because let me be honest, I hate to waste my time investing into any relationship under false pretenses. And yes, people get involved in things that they later decide are not for them; what I am saying is hindsight is too late…what about foreshadowing? Thinking logically before even engaging in conversation. Asking yourself: Is this really necessary to the goal or is this for fun.

How does sparking this conversation align me with what I want for myself, as far as the people I surround myself around?

My mind is stuck in this mode of how does that piece fit the puzzle; does it complete the puzzle or does it throw the puzzle off. And I guess that is what I am trying to correlate with our relationships we enter into; whether personal or professional, are they necessary or are we choosing to overlook that question for the simple reason of entertainment or potential.

Why are we carrying on relationships that leave us questioning why we began them in the first place?

Motivation for Perspective: I am Open

 

The art of accomplishing goals is one that is delicate and rough, especially when attempting to establish yourself from your dreams, into your reality.

The sheer idea that you could live the life you have dreamed of, desired, fantasized, should be enough to make any Go Getter find the courage to begin.

A beginning is all we need.

A thought. An action.

Each motion forward in effort, secures our destiny.

God does not need us to be totally sure what the outcome will be, God only needs us to believe.

I believe that this journey, this journey in which the rules of life, the ones I thought I had to follow, no longer apply to me.

I am unstoppable. I am without mental, spiritual and creative limitations.

The sun shall rise on my dreams. The moon shall overshadow my fears.

I am open to the art of accomplishment. I am open to the art of perseverance.

I am open to all which is in store for me.

I am not shut.

I am wide open.

Personal Decision

Quick time in the limelight.
Or
Forever a legacy.

Sure they shine for right now. But aint you tryna shine forever?

That’s why you go deeper than the surface. Exploring your purpose.

Shiny things do not matter. Them dim in due time.

But a soul that shines in this lifetime, finds reward in all times of life to come.

Look, but do not envy.
Let not your heart be consumed with petty thoughts.
You have no time and the world is so deceitful, it will have you to believe what you seek, aint worth seeking.

That is why you see so much carbon-copying.

Tell yourself, there is nothing else.
This is all it has to eat.
Your purpose, to fuel you. Your passion to drive you.

So you must change your mindset in order to survive off what you got to give.

We aint following no body.

We be the trend.