Each day is a new day to make an effort to be better.
Yesterday has passed. The best way to make amends is changed behavior and a positive mindset to not repeat what hasn’t gotten us the best version of ourselves.
Give yourself grace and the apology for your shortcomings. Then move on from it. Beating yourself up for having an overflow of emotion is not healing you; it’s hindering you.
I honestly don’t think there is harm in looking back on your past. Rewatching the steps you’ve taken. Words you spoken and words you never said. Your actions and reactions…your non- actions. Those moments you wanted to last forever. Those moments that seemed they would never end.
But here’s the thing that can be tricky with looking back; we sometimes try to rewrite what has happened rather than accept and learn to practice and do better.
Nothing that has happened can be changed. But we, ourselves, can change and grow into improved versions of ourselves.
We can look back and see a path to healing, stability, and commitment to not repeat past mistakes or to build upon proven success.
I hope in reflecting you aren’t caught up in “shoulda, coulda, woulda,” yet you find peace in being able to steadily move on with your life and the lessons.
And that in all that passes through your mind of memories, you never lose focus on providing love and a safe space for yourself to forgive yourself and seek fulfillment.
It’s ok to reflect… just try not to regret too much. Everything has happened for a reason.
Trust the process.
This week it would be awesome for you to remember that you are qualified.
You are qualified for whatever you seek and set your mind to obtaining or becoming.
And no one can put limits on you, but you. Step out of the shadows or others’ opinions and thoughts and begin to live fully, freely in your truth.
Beautiful things happen there; in the place of self love.
You don’t have to wait on someone else to make a move in order for you to do what’s best for you. If they aren’t moving in a way that shows you it’s an collective effort, it’s time to then collect all your effort and use it to propel yourself forward.
Honey, you are not a tree: you can move.
Take comfort that despite not having everything, the Universe still saw fit to give you gems of good morals and values, a prayer life and a drive to never give up.
While we may yearn for our lives to be different or begun differently, the truth of it all is that we are chosen to be remarkable examples of how void can be filled through works of faith that a life of gratefulness can overcome so many things we have never experienced or yet to endure.
Be patient with yourself and allow yourself to feel your emotions, but don’t stay there too long; that is not where you belong.
You are a bright and shining star, uniquely made and oh so amazing! Don’t let the dimness of circumstances beyond your control, knock you off track.
Stay the course and remember loving yourself is a must, never a choice.
You are the love that you need.
May you accept the outcome of repeated lessons and find the courage to do what is necessary in order to move forward to the blessing.
Everything and everyone is not meant to be in your life beyond their allotted time. And the more you try to prolong the existence the more you complicated your life, unnecessarily at that.
I hope that sometime soon you are walking away from all your little starter fires and find yourself basking in your sunshine.
Greater is one better choice away.
When you’ve endured hardships, you are battle tested to navigate the present and future obstacles that lie ahead.
Trust your intuition and if you still struggle to center your thoughts to see the resolution, reach out to your trusted and wise council you can help you.
It’s time your obstacles in life recognize your power to overcome them, one by one, watching them fall beneath your feet.
Using them to build the path to your success.
Remember, A season is just that, it too shall pass.
Success is not given, it is earned.
The value you place on living your dreams, is reflected in the quality of your effort.
Don’t ever attempt anything in fear or half assed.
Build yourself up with positive reaffirming messages of how incredible you are, how worthy you are to have the desires of your heart and put on that playlist that has you feeling yourself!
And even if you fall down in the midst of doing, take note, get up and keep moving.
You are closer than you were before.
Make A Plan
Take Action
Set Up Shop
Go Get It
The most important part of loyalty, begins with yourself.
Never compromise who you are to fit someone else’s idea of who you should be.
Either they can accept you or respect you.
Just make sure you do both!
If I do not find it within myself to sacrifice for the benefit of tomorrow, then I am not committed to my vision.
If I do not take the time to make something happen for myself, I am not committed to my success.
If I do not suffer for now, I am not committed to enjoying the relief of the future.
You have to take the risk of failing in order to show yourself what you are capable of accomplishing.
Seek out the opportunity to be turned down.
Learn to be bigger than a rejection.
Learn to be bigger than your doubts.
If you are capable of envisioning the dream.
You are capable of achieving it.
A Go Getter is not bred from success. And a Go Getter is not bred from failure.
It is the commitment to achieve at all costs, that births a Go Getter.
The commitment.
HEYY GURRL HEYY 