I learned a valuable lesson over the weekend,while in mid conversation with someone I am close to. In discussing my point with this person and feeling very much passionate about my stance, my spirit intervened and pointed out a behavior I tend to evoke in my relationships with others.
Stop trying to prove yourself worthy and stop trying to stress your value.
Simple as that. And I recognized it immediately and backed off the discussion, because my passion stemmed from a place of wanting to be seen differently in their eyes although I already know who I am.
I spent the rest of my evening going over previous engagements I’ve had with various people where our connection fizzled or altered and I realized how often I have made the mistake of trying to prove myself worthy enough for others to accept me into their space.
Realizing I can utilize that same energy to better prepare my space for those who truly desire to partake in my life and all that I have to offer. It gave me hope that I can better go forth in my relationships with others and make sound choices on how to engage and to what extent I am willing to engage with them, and for that I am grateful.
Make sure the space you are pushing for in the lives of others, is more about understanding where you fit, rather than why you should fit.
Have an awesome Monday and remember:
Make A Plan
Take Action
Set Up Shop
Go Get It
HEYY GURRL HEYY 